Talk to your child
How to talk to your child about being overweight or obese

Weight is a very sensitive subject for most of Americans, but especially for children and adolescents. It is important to focus this discussion on the health of your child, NOT on physical appearance. Children are capable of understanding the consequences of their actions (or inaction, in the case of physical activity).

Some tips:

  • Give love and support - let your child know he or she is loved and supported above anything.


  • Be your child’s cheerleader - praise behaviors, traits and accomplishment.


  • Play nice – avoid criticism, and don’t call him or her fat or obese. Calling your child fat or obese is counter-productive and can lead to other serious health and psychological issues.

  • Work together – find a way to work together as a family to increase activity and eat healthier.


  • Be honest – if you don’t practice good nutrition and are inactive, let your child know that you will be working toward better health as well.


  • Make it fun – show your family that a healthy lifestyle can be fun by making games a family event.


  • Keep track – teach self-monitoring through a journal or diary of nutrition and activity.


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